Intense, inescapable bondage is something that can cause a myriad of mental states in an individual. The feeling of being unable to escape, realizing there is no way out, can actually be very calming. Perhaps deep inside the psyche, the memory of being swaddled tightly as an infant contributes to this response. One must give up control completely. This can be hard to do, but the bondage takes away any choices.
I can understand how panic may set in. It requires both physical and mental submission in order to reach a state of bliss. Some people like to test the bondage, straining and sweating, trying with all of their might to get free. The beautiful moment when they realize it is no use, that they simply can not get free is, paradoxically, when their real freedom begins. Most bondage lovers can agree that being physically restrained gives a feeling of freedom like no other.
At one point, I had to let his hands free for blood circulation. I switched to leather hospital cuffs, then chained the cuffs to the table to restrict his hand's access to a certain part of his anatomy that was begging for attention. The heavy weight of chains piled on, was all the attention it got at that time.
Tuesday, September 10, 2013
One of the games I like to play is "Pussy Whipped House Husband." Remember, it's all for pretend!!!! The rules of the game are:
- Male must be willing to follow directions.
- Male must perform any of the domestic duties that in times past were the responsibility of the wife.
- Male must cheerfully and with as much grace as possible don feminine attire, preferably an apron. I want him to be pretty!
- Male must do his very best at cleaning. Sloppy work will not be tolerated.
Some males do not care for, and actually wilt under such humiliation and prefer to be adored and sweetly encouraged by their dominant wife. The desire to please and serve is a beautiful thing, one that does not go unnoticed, no matter what kind of scenario is being played out.The more delicate male house husbands find joy in serving and would rather forgo the mental cruelty, which is fine by me, as long as everyone is having fun. After all, that is precisely the point of all of this!
My pussy whipped house husband looked so cute doing the dishes, I just had to snap a few shots.